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A sunflower, a notebook with the word "gratitude" at the top, and a pen are on a white countertop. Images of heart doodles and fall leaves are overlaid on the image. Adapting Gratitude Practices for ADHD & Autistic Brains

Adapting Gratitude Practices for ADHD & Autistic Brains

How about adapting gratitude practices for ADHD & autistic brains? If you’re a late-identified autistic or ADHD adult, chances are your relationship with habits, reflection, or emotional expression looks different from the standard “write-it-down-at-bedtime” model.

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A Thanksgiving or Holiday table spread with traditional holiday foods, candles, and lights. The image is overlaid with icons representing emotional overwhelm, sensory overwhelm, and confusion around gift giving. Surviving the Holidays as a ND Adult: Sensory, Social, & Emotional Strategies

Surviving the Holidays as a ND Adult: Sensory, Social, & Emotional Strategies

Excited & Exhausted? The holidays can be a strange mix of excitement and exhaustion. There’s comfort in familiar traditions and stress in the noise, expectations, and constant togetherness.

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A client speaking to a mental health professional with a clipboard. Why late diagnosis of ADHD and autism matters.

Late Diagnosis of ADHD and Autism Matters

Late diagnosis of  ADHD and autism matters.  For years, I thought I just needed to try harder.

To stay more organized. To be less sensitive. To finally “get it together.” 

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A woman sitting cross-legged on a grassy river bank gazing out over the water at the pink and purple sunset. There are doodle images of the word "calm," a dove representing peace, and an icon of a person sitting in a yoga pose overlayed on the image. These things represent nervous system regulation.

Nervous System Regulation: What Late-Diagnosed Autistic & ADHD Adults Need to Know

If you’re part of the late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD community,  you are probably very familiar with the feeling of being “always on edge” or constantly exhausted. 

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An overwhelmed woman with a stressed out expression and sticky notes all over her face. There are doodles of a checklist on a clipboard, a clock, and a thought bubble full of bees overlaid on the image. Executive Function Making Sense of Your Struggles

Executive Function: Making Sense of Your Struggles

It turns out that many of our challenges fall under the heading of executive function.  Executive functioning is often described as the CEO of your brain.  It coordinates everything from planning, organizing, and working memory to impulse control and emotional regulation.

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A woman wrapped in a blanket on a comfortable couch in soft lighting representing a sensory-friendly life.

Sensory Sensitivities: Practical Solutions For a Sensory-Friendly Life

Turns out “just ignore it” doesn’t always work. Sensory sensitivities are real and can cause intense physical and emotional reactions. Learning how to create a sensory-friendly life is foundational for neurodivergent well-being.

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A close-up of a hand spinning a fidget spinner. Other doodles of stim toys are overlaid on the photo.

Understanding Stimming: Why It’s Important and How to Embrace It

These are all common examples of stimming.  Stimming is short for Self-Stimulatory Behavior.  Everybody stims!  Stimming is part of the human experience.  We can all relate to it, because we’ve all done it from time to time.

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A picture of a woman covering her ears to illustrate sensory sensitivity. Sensory Sensitivities What's the Big Deal?

Sensory Sensitivities: What’s the Big Deal?

Sensory sensitivities are real. The harsh fluorescent lights overhead are causing your eyes to squint involuntarily. Your pony-tail is weighing down your scalp, making your head throb. Then you’re suddenly hyper-aware of  the tag in the back of your t-shirt scratching incessantly against your neck like a spindly insect.

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A woman is writing in a journal at a desk with lit candles and a mug of coffee. The rainbow autism symbol is overlaid on the image to represent that she is processing her diagnosis. Late-identified autism.

Discovered Late: Processing My Late-Identified Autism

Late-Identified autism?  How was this possible? The first time I thought I might be autistic, I was sitting on the sofa next to my husband watching You-Tube videos of other late-identified neurodivergent people.

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