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Made with late-identified autistic & ADHD adults in mind 🦓

At howtobeneurodivergent.com,

I create resources that

bridge the gap between

 recognizing your neurotype

and understanding

 how to work with it.

The creator of howtobeneurodivergent.com, Heather Tinker

Hi, my name is Heather.

I’m late-identified autistic and ADHD.

Let’s explore what it

means to embrace

neurodivergence

after years of trying 

to be neurotypical.

 

It’s about

acquiring the tools to

show up as

our best selves.

Then doing it,

one step at a time.


Support

💡Education

I offer articles, guides, and insights based on research and my personal experience of late-identified autism and ADHD. Discover the science behind neurodivergence, strategies for managing executive dysfunction, and tips for navigating relationships, work, and daily life. Whether you're newly diagnosed or exploring your identity further, I hope the information here empowers you with knowledge to better understand yourself and take positive action.

💛Connection

I work to foster a sense of belonging through community-building opportunities and shared stories. Explore personal essays, interviews with neurodivergent adults, and tips for cultivating meaningful relationships. Find supportive spaces through my social media presence to engage with others who understand your journey. Share in the successes and struggles of others, and meet people who "get it." Be inspired by out-of-the-box ideas that can be adapted to suit your own life.

⭐Resources

Here, you'll find practical tools and curated recommendations designed to make life easier and more enjoyable. Access printable planners, comprehensive guides and courses, sensory-friendly product lists, and tips for self-advocacy in healthcare and workplaces. My goal is to equip you with actionable solutions to meet your unique needs and support your authentic life. With input from my readers, I'd love to grow the offerings here into a truly helpful and meaningful, go-to source.

“What sets howtobeneurodivergent.com apart is the focus on late-diagnosed adults. So many resources out there feel geared toward kids, but this site has helped me navigate the world in a way that finally makes sense.”

Jane Miller

Photo of Heather Tinker, creator of howtobeneurodivergent.com, with a playful eyerolling expression.

Hello! I'm Heather,
a late-identified
autistic ADHDer,
former social worker,
and mother of six.

I received my diagnosis at 40 years old.  

The follow-up appointment consisted 

of a handful of book recommendations and

a deficits based report written

in the language of the DSM. 

Nothing magically changed for me, yet

everything was suddenly different. 

And I had no idea

how to move on with my life.

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Questions?

Please feel free to contact me through email or social media.  I will do my best to answer any questions you have regarding the mission and services of howtobeneurodivergent.com!

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